“The Need to Belong vs. the Need to Grow” Part 1

“Bert Hellinger says that as human beings we have both a need to belong to groups and a need to expand and grow. Helligner says that as long as we stay within the approval of the group, we experience the innocence of belonging. However, when we begin to grow in directions beyond the group, we experience guilt in regards to the group. The Truth of our freedom carries the price of guilt.”

The Yamas & Niyamas by Deborah Adele
Bert Hellinger “Family Constellation Therapy”